Few things have the power to change the course of your life or career like learning how to make high-quality decisions. Yet, surprisingly, we are rarely taught how to make effective decisions consistently. In life and business, making the right call can often be the difference between success and failure, and those who master decision-making often achieve outcomes that seem almost lucky—but luck has little to do with it.
Imagine standing in a high-pressure situation, surrounded by streams of conflicting information. Some signals say “go,” others scream “stop.” The decision you make could alter the lives of many and, if wrong, could make headlines for all the wrong reasons. This was my reality at 24, working at a three-letter intelligence agency just weeks after 9/11. My heart raced as the weight of the moment sank in—no one had ever taught me how to make decisions like this. The stakes were high, and there was no one else around to lean on. I realized, at that moment, that if no one was going to teach me, I had to teach myself.
While there’s no formal class on decision-making, those who consistently make good choices aren’t born with a special gift. They develop a set of tools, behaviors, and frameworks that help them navigate complex situations. It’s not about being a genius—it’s about thinking differently, positioning yourself smartly, and avoiding the blind spots that lead even the brightest minds to make terrible decisions.
One of the key tools I discovered along my decision-making journey was the concept of mental models. A mental model is a simplified representation of how something works. These models allow us to compress vast amounts of information into actionable insights, helping us navigate the world more effectively.
Think about velocity, a mental model that tells us speed and direction matter. Or reciprocity, which shows us that offering positivity first often leads to mutual benefit. Then there’s relativity, a model reminding us that the perspective we take can drastically change how we interpret a situation. These are just a few of the countless mental models that shape how we think, identify important information, and make decisions.
In my experience, mastering these models has been transformative. When you start seeing problems through different lenses, you begin to unlock solutions that were previously hidden. The more models you understand, the more effectively you can approach complex challenges, both in life and business.
When you look back at your life, how many important decisions have you already made? With hindsight, how many were good? How many could have been better? Most of us, when pressed, don’t have a defined process for making critical decisions. We might make lists of pros and cons or simply trust our gut, but neither approach is foolproof.
While minor choices, like where to eat lunch, don’t carry much weight, other decisions—who to trust, where to live, whom to marry—can shape our lives for years to come. Yet most of us approach these monumental choices with the same lack of structure we use for trivial ones.
The problem with the standard pro-con list is that it often misses vital nuances, leaving out considerations that only mental models or a deeper understanding of the problem would reveal. This lack of depth is why otherwise intelligent people can make terrible decisions.
History is littered with examples of brilliant individuals making disastrous choices. Consider Napoleon’s ill-fated invasion of Russia, or NASA’s decision to overlook safety warnings before the Challenger disaster. These were people with access to top-tier resources and knowledge, yet their decisions ended in catastrophe.
Why? Because intelligence alone doesn’t guarantee good decisions. Without a wide array of mental models or the ability to see the broader context, even the smartest individuals can miss critical factors. The ability to think broadly, consider multiple perspectives, and avoid cognitive traps is what separates effective decision-makers from the rest.
Our society celebrates specialization. We reward those who dedicate their lives to mastering one subject. But in our quest to become experts, we risk losing sight of the bigger picture. The truth is, the most effective decision-makers don’t limit themselves to one area of expertise—they think across disciplines.
A physicist can teach you about relationships. A mathematician can offer valuable business insights. Knowledge isn’t confined to neat boxes, and the smartest people take the lessons they learn in one field and apply them to another. The world is interconnected, and the broader your base of knowledge, the better equipped you are to make smart decisions.
Take, for example, the lessons learned from the Manhattan Project, where scientists harnessed nuclear energy to build the atomic bomb. The principles of chain reactions and energy efficiency that made the bomb possible can be applied to personal and business decisions. By seeing the world through multiple lenses, we open ourselves to unexpected insights.
So how do you make decisions? Most people stumble through them, hoping for the best without ever examining their process. Like a golfer swinging blindly, we try the same thing over and over again, hoping for better results each time. But hope isn’t a strategy.
In the 1980s, Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger, two of the world’s most successful investors, saw the Savings & Loan crisis coming. While most of their peers stuck to their course, Buffett and Munger made the unusual decision to divest from the industry. Their ability to see beyond the present, to understand the broader economic landscape, and to act decisively saved them from the financial ruin that befell many others.
The lesson? The best decision-makers don’t just react—they anticipate. They don’t rely on luck; they use wisdom, grounded in time-tested principles, to make choices that consistently work.
Throughout history, the greatest decision-makers have applied key mental models to their advantage:
Nikola Tesla, brilliant as he was, failed to grasp the importance of building strong relationships. His inability to understand the social aspect of business cost him both fame and fortune.
General Patton, on the other hand, understood that a map doesn’t always represent reality. When his troops were stuck, poring over maps, he waded across a river himself, discovering it was much shallower than the map suggested. His leadership turned the tide of battle.
Warren Buffett, legendary for his investment acumen, has always sought to operate in areas where competition is less fierce. By focusing on less glamorous industries, he has consistently outperformed more visible competitors.
Making better decisions doesn’t come from hoping for the best or relying on one-dimensional tools like pro-con lists. It comes from understanding how the world works and applying a range of mental models to navigate life’s complexities. By adopting a multidisciplinary approach and thinking more broadly, we can dramatically improve our decision-making skills.
When you combine intelligent preparation with general thinking frameworks, you’ll find yourself better equipped to tackle any challenge. Inversion (thinking through a problem backwards), second-order thinking (asking “and then what?”), and understanding that the map is not the territory are just a few of the tools that can guide you toward smarter decisions.
The ability to make consistently smart decisions is one of the most powerful skills you can develop. It’s not about luck or intelligence—it’s about wisdom, grounded in a deep understanding of how the world works. By cultivating mental models, thinking across disciplines, and avoiding common decision-making pitfalls, you can set yourself on a path to success, both in life and in business.
Stop guessing. Stop hoping for the best. Start thinking clearly, and you’ll soon find yourself making decisions that consistently lead to better outcomes. That’s the key to truly changing your trajectory.